Just thinking....  / Aunt Sharon

Hi

Well it's almost your birthday and I've been thinking about you! Acutally there aren't many days that go by that I don't think about you.  I miss you so much and I know I always will.  Mandy starts preschool on your birthday :-)  Keep an eye on her for me please.  She would have loved you!!!  I love you :-)

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I MISS YOU!  / Dori Dugan-Rogers (Cousin)

Hey kiddo,

I was thinking about you today and I just wish you were here.  Dominic is turning 6 in a month!  Can you believe it, and Dylan just turned 2!  Time flies and they grow up fast!  The weather is getting warmer and the kids want to play outside all day everyday, I wish you were here with them.  I know your watching over all of us and I won't say goodbye, I'll say "I'll see you soon".  I miss you <3

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Just stopped by 2 say hi  / Dugan Coyle (Little brother )

Jimmy,

so much 2 say but dont no where 2 start or finish. did anybody tell u we got a new dog named Duncan. It was very hard 2 c Bubba go. but i no u r takin good care of him. He wasnt even the same wen u left. Im turnin 15 in 2 months meanin next year i can drive. I no if u were here u would b the first person i would want 2 drive with and i would love 4 u 2 be my drivin teacher. But since ur up in heaven atleast i no i will have somone always drivin shotgun wit me with those other people who dont care about the lives of others. Wenever im alone or afriad i think of u and im not alone or afraid nomore. U were always my hero but now ur even more of my hero ur my guardian. I no ur in god's hands now but ur in my heart forever and i no noone will b able 2 take that away from me. i dont think i have anything else 2 say but just like my title i just stopped by 2 say hi!! Your always gonna b my big brother no matter what life pulls on us.

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passengers of hit and run vehicles must call 911!  / Joseph DuPont (concerned citizen )

The sad death of James is just one of about 1000 a year and another 18,000 injured by hit and run drivers. More times than not passengers are in the car and do or say nothing. I'm trying to get the laws changed to force passengers to be part of the solution and give hit and run victims a better change. I did three youtubes on Steven's Law. I would like to get others to change the laws.

God bless you all.

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Happy Birthday James!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )
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Happy Birthday, Jimmy!  / Judy, Mom To Jamie-leigh Britt (an angel mom )

Wishing you a happy birthday, Jimmy.
May this day be peaceful and filled with loving memories of you.
Love,
Judy~Jamie-leigh's mom

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Sending Birthday Wishes your Way Jimmy...  / Angela -. Daughter To Angel Linda Taylor
Hi Jimmy,
Just wanted to drop  in to wish you a very Happy Birthday in our beautiful heavens above.
I will be thinking of you on your very special day and holding you in my heart.  I'll be sending love & hugs and prayers out to all those that miss & love you so very much.  Knowing that these special days are so very hard on your loved ones!
God Bless!
Angela

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Happy Birthday! Miss you more than words can say.  / Colleen (Sister)
I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name, now all I have is memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is my keepsake with which I'll never part. God has you in his keeping but I have you in my heart. Close

I miss you  / Kimmie (Cousin)
Jimmy it doesn't seem like it has been 2 years. I look at your picture everyday and can't believe it has been this long since I heard your voice, you made me laugh, or that I saw you. Or even smelled your Axe body spray your drenched in. But hey the commercials must be true then because the girls looooved you. 
I have such an emptiness. I miss you so much. Don't ever stop watching over me. I love you. Close

SO VERY SORRY!  / SHARI WHITEHEAD (PASSER-BY)
AS A PARENT, WHO LOST HER SON AT AGE 16. I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I AM SINCERELY SORRY THAT THIS HAD TO HAPPEN. I HOPE YOUR PAIN LESSENS AND YOUR MEMORIES GATHER STRENGTH. Close

Missing you  / Doriann Dugan/Rogers (Cousin)
Jimmy, I still can't believe it's been 2 years, it feels like yesterday.  Everytime I go over to your house I'm waiting for you to turn the corner and it's still not any different.  I don't want to admit how hard it's been seeing as though we lost touch.  I wish every nite that I coulda spent more time with everyone before this tragedy, but it has brought everyone back together again.  Everyone was over my parents house 2 weeks ago and it was so nice to see everyone enjoying themselves.  Dugan and Erin played with the chickens, your Dad chilled out on the swing and your Mom got to relax with Dylan James and listen to Dominic whine..lol  Dylan will be 12 weeks on thursday and I so wish you could have met him.  I know your looking down on everyone and I am glad I have this website to vent on and maybe you are reading this now..so please know you never leave my heart and we are always thnking about you.  I love u <3 Close

Miss you...  / Aunt Sharon
I can't believe it's coming up on two years since you left us.  I miss you so much.  I can still hear your voice in my head. I really miss your sense of humor.  You could always make me laugh.  Your little cousin turned 1 last week.  She would have loved you.  Keep looking down on her for us.  We love you!!!! Close

My Christmas Angel  / Kimmie (Cousin/friend)
Jim,
   Christmas is in like 5 or 6 days and all i want to do is cry. It doesnt feel like Christmas anymore around here without u and Pop pop and my dad isnt the same anymore. Some days its hard to even get out of bed and other days I dont and just cry and freak out on people. I lost my best friend because I can no longer control my anger and my feelings I have just totally lost my mind. I dont talk to anyone anymore. I have this great guy who would do anything for me and I act like he isnt even there just because I dont care about anything anymore. I was told that I only care about myself but if that were the case wouldnt i be somewhat happy right now? I am not at all. I could care less about me and what goes on around me. I cry over everything I have lost since i turned 21 my life is in a downward spiral that just doesnt seem to end. I started doing things I never wouldve when I was younger, acting in ways that hurt other people and I am just oblivious to what I do until I sit and think and just cry and cry and cant believe I actually did and said these things. I know ur probably looking down telling me its really not that bad and it can always get worse but in my eyes its worser then worse I wish u were here to make me laugh and do the stupid little jokes you useto do. I need your help please be me Christmas Angel and make sure I do the right things in the coming year and change my life. I want to but its so hard. I want control of myself again. I love you and u know i miss ya jimmy more then anything. Close

Just thinking...  / Lori
Jimmy-
   It's been a while since I have been on here. I think the last time I went to the cemetary for you was your birthday. Its almost thanksgiving and your suppose to be thankful for everything that you have and your family. I am thankful for those things but also for the fact that I have friends like you who keep me going. I have been so depressed lately and I felt just like giving up, ya know? I think of how much it hurt me when you went away and I think of how much hurt I would cause my friends and family if I went away and so I am thankful to be alive. I don't think I have been the same since you died. I never cheated on Chad until a month after you died. I think I was looking for something that wasn't there and then I got into drugs and staying up for days. Thats not me. I hate living with my brother, he has no job. I barely see my friends anymore. Colleen called me to go out on Saturday but since I am so broke I couldn't. I really wanted to. I feel like I am letting everyone down. I'm not here to complain even though I am doing a good job of it, but I really need some strength and guidence. I wish you were here so that you could give me some advice. I miss you more and more each day, Love you. Happy Thanksgiving! (in 2 days) Close

Happy Halloween Jim  / Kimmie (Cousin)
Hey Jimmy Happy Halloween!!! You would have laughed at me so much this past weekend cause of what i wore lol I miss you so much I miss your voice, I miss your laugh, I miss your corney jokes and funny sayings, I miss how we always use to make fun of eachother over everything, I miss going out and partying w/ you, I miss us sharing friends, I miss you informing me almost everyday of what an airhead I am, I just miss you I miss everything about you. I really miss how me and you wouldnt have anyone to go somewhere with and I would call you or you would call me cause one of us was always up to have fun... Jimmy u just dont know what its like to want to talk to someone and see someone and not be able to and know that they arent coming back they arent just on vacation or moved away they're actually gone. I mean the heartache is really heartache it actually makes your heart hurt and you feel sick to your stomach... we knew things about eachother that no one knew and I havent heard anything from anyone else so my secrets you really did take to the grave I know i can still talk to you through prayers but its kinda hard when u dont answer back it makes me feel like I am crazy or something ya know? Well i just want you to know that I am thinking of you, I think of you everyday and I miss you more then anything and my heart still isnt healed and I dont think it will be until the day we meet again i'll see you on the other side buddy love you. Close

Happy Birthday Jimmy  / Donna Medeiros (visitor daugther of ruth hobbs )

Hi Jimmy, hope your having a great celebration of your birthday in Heaven!

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Happy Birthday  / Kathleen Watkins (Cousin)
Happy Birthday Jimmy!! We all went out and celebrated for you last night. I couldn't help but wonder what it would have been like if you were there. Please continue to watch over our family, and know that we wish you could come out with all of us. I know you partied up in heaven with the rest of the Coyle men. I'm sure you had a blast!! We miss you, and what happened to you will never make sense to me. But I smile because I know your in a better place, and I will see your smiling face again someday <33 Close

Happy Birthday  / Aunt Sharon (Aunt)
Happy Birthday Jim -- I still can't believe that you're gone.  I miss you more everyday.  We will all make sure that Mandy knows you through pictures and stories.  I couldn't help but think how often you probably would have visited me this summer to help with Evan being away.   I have so many happy memories of you, Colleen, Kimmie, Kristin & Kevin being here with us.  Of course I have years of happy memories of you that go beyond that.  Please watch over my Mandy from Heaven.  I love you and I will never stop missing you! Close

happy Birthday Jimmy!  / Margaret Daughter Of ^i^ Nellie Buonpane (Someone who cares )

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1 Wish  / Doriann Dugan (Loving Cousin )

Jimmy, my one wish in this world would be to make things go back to the way they were when we were kids.  We used to be so close for the longest time, but we grew apart for whatever reason there was.  You and Colleen  used to come to my house and play with all the odd animals we had..remember..lol  Colleen reminded me of the time she had to shovel horse poop to learn a lesson..lol  
I wish I could go back and make certain things not happem, but I can't.  John took it real hard and still has trouble even thinking about it.  You were his favorite person and he never thought he'd lose you and he's just a sad kid now.  Out of all the things in this world I would want for me and all the rest of the family is to have you back.  When Randy first came around to the first family party and was shy, you came over and talked with him about music and clubs and made him feel like a part of the family.  I will forever remember that and so will he.  I guess what I'm trying to say is that I miss you so very much and you really impacted a lot peoples lives with your caring nature.  You had a light about you that you could see just by looking at you and you made people want to smile:)  God does funny things in life and we never know why and maybe one day I can ask, but for now I'll talk to you in my dreams and tell you how little Dominic is growing up.  He looks so much like PopPop it's uncanny.  He makes all the same faces PopPop did and I wanna just cry, but I smile becasue it's so special to have that.  Tell PopPop that Dominc looks just like him and everytime he makes his faces I laugh cuz I see him right there.  You both were so special and God is lucky to have 2 people like you in his presence and I hope you are watching over all of us.  I miss you and I love you  R.I.P.

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