Numb / Lori
I feel like this is the only way that I can get my emotions out. I was reading what Colleen had put, Dugan, and Kim and I started to cry. I don't have a whole lot to say today. I'm in a "numb" kind of mood and I haven't visited here in a while but I moved your picture so I could see you better and then I came on here cause i was thinking of you. I miss you alot and i had a dream about you the other day. Can't quite remember what it was about but i know one thing and that is that you had a smile on your face. I miss your face. Miss you. Love you. Goodnight.
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Our Angel in Heaven  / Kimmie (cousin/friend)
Hey Jim,
    I am thinking about u. It was so nice and sunny today i swear when i was looking up at work i saw ur face smiling. I hope ur happy and life is good up in Heaven. I hope ur watching over my Daddy and making sure he gets better faster cause he misses being home and I know the day that it happened all his angels up there were watching over him and not going to let him leave us. I wouldnt have been able to deal with that i already lost someone close to me which was you. I couldnt lose him too. I was laughing to myself last nite thinking of u doing ur whooooa thing u used to say and ur oooouch! I laughed so hard the neighbors probably thought i was going crazy which wouldnt be too out of the ordinary these days... life is crazy right now. This summer and last summer have been so horrible. I was starting to get back to normal and then everything happened with my dad and I was hit yet again like a ton of bricks. My life will never be normal again and neither will anyone elses since ur gone and now everything is going to be even more different when my dad comes home and needs me like I needed him when i was little. I guess God just really wants to challenge our family and see how much we can deal with. We are strong but its getting hard. Its hard to stay strong and on my feet when things like this are just thrown in ur face and u dont know what to do. I cant even think anymore I never even know what day of the week it is. I just want summer to be over with cause it makes me think of u more and i want my Dad home. I remember when we used to rollerblade and ride our bikes and camp out in the backyard it seems like life was perfect then we always thought everyone would be here and nothing was ever going to go wrong and I never knew how to respond to people when they would tell me a grandparent died or something cuz i still had everyone there and now I dont. And i wish i could turn back time and have none of this ever happen. I want to be psychic!!! I love u and keep my Daddy strong and always know I am thinking of you especially when i look up to a bright blue sky. I love u Jim and I miss you dearly. Close

your my big brother  / Dugan Coyle (Little Brother )
Jimmy,
You left with colleen and erin to fight with. I miss you so much.The teams in this house are so unfare now its colleen and erin verse me thats unfair. Yesterday MoeJoe died I hope you are taking care of him up there and I hope he is not biting you anymore.lol.I remember when I brought MoeJoe outside he was to quick and got away and I thought he was a goner because he was to fast to catch but it seemed like another hand reached down becasue MoeJoe was looking in the wrong direction and Dad just picked him up like that.I just hope you are taking care of MoeJoe because I miss you very much.And that day when you reached down to help me save MoeJoe I can't thank you but I guess you are his owner now.Tuesday is fourth of july already.When ever I see a firework I will think of you.
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WoW it seems like just yesterday!  / Colleen (Big Sister )
Wow, Jimmy it is hard to believe that it has been over a year now since I last saw your goofy smile.  I would give anything to see you again, I never thought in a million years I would lose you like that. You always new how to make everyone laugh, yea you know how to push my nerves too. But that is what siblings do. Jimmy you were one of a kind and you will never be replaced. I miss you soo much. Love always and forever your not so big sis Colleen. Close

One Year...  / Lori

I'm at work right now and i'm thinking of you and I start to cry but then I have to stop because I'm at work, but then I see the picture of you and I at my desk...this is just not a good day. I put some crazy flowers on your grave. Hope you like them. I cried a lot today. It just kills me cause I've never lost a friend, it's been a year, but when I think about it, the feelings and emotions come back as if it were yesterday. I can't imagine how your mom, dad, sisters, and brother are feeling right now. I mean...it breaks my heart to think of how upset they are. I miss you alot. I wish you were here so we can drink some Jack Daniels and Coke and get wasted like we used to. I could really go for a Newport right now. Too bad I quit. I wonder what it's like. I wonder if you can still hear me and see me sometimes. I mean, I learned in school that when you die you go to heaven and then you watch over the people you love to make sure they are safe. I hope your watching over me. I wish I could just see you again for one time just to tell you that I love you and that your friendship meant alot to me. You really don't know what you have/had until it's gone. I have SO many memories of you and Colleen and Kim it's crazy. I remember asking Kim a million times if you liked me and thought I was "hot". LoL Then we dated for like what? 2 weeks. I always remained on good terms with you. You were a very easy-going person (to me anyways). I miss you SO much and I do LOVE you very much. Please watch over Erin especially today. It sucks being that young losing a brother and on her birthday, too. I feel so bad.  R.I.P. Jimmy. Like I've said before" "You'll Always Be In My Heart". I'll NEVER forget you as long as I live.  Good times...we had good times. 
xoxoxo

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1 year Monday  / Kimmie (family)
Aaaww man! I am just sitting here and I havent looked at this sight in so long because everytime I do it makes me cry because its like welcome to reality! And it makes it so hard to snap out of all the feelings that just come rushing back because of the numb feeling i get from getting used to hurting all the time. I cant believe its going to be a year on monday feels like just last nite we were drinking and sitting outback! Its seems like after the past year our family is just falling apart. We all used to be so close and now its like it hurts to see everyone because of who's missing from the picture now, ya know? I remember how me, u and colleen all used to argue with eachother on car rides lol and how u MADE colleen drive on 95 for the first time! That was an experience!! Remember all the times we had together and I really hope that u never forget about me down here and always look out for me cause i need that right now. I have no idea where my life is going, if its even going anywhere. I am so confused I am like losing everyone I have just because lifes so much harder to deal with anymore and I get angry and frustrated about things alot more since it seems everything always goes wrong. I still havent taken ur cell number out of my phone and dont think i ever will. I miss u so much i miss going out and getting drunk, having u hook up with all my friends, hearing u say "oh yeah, Kim, did u hear about that?" and all the funny things u useto say and do when u got really hyper and started acting funny!! We were born under the same moon lol. Wow Jim I miss u and the emptyness doesnt seem to be getting any easier to deal with. Its actually getting harder knowing that ur not here. I love u and ur always in my heart and i hope u keep me in urs.  Love u Jim rip Close

When we graduated high school...  / Kathleen (Cousin)
Ohh Jimmy, I read my guest book from our high-school graduation party today. You wrote something along the lines of we finally made it, and good luck at Penn State. God it made me miss you, to see ur hand writing there. I remember that day so clearly. I remember us standing by our cake with these "oh God why must they take pictures?" look on our faces. I never felt entirely close to you, but you always made me feel welcome and you always opened up the conversation. My friends swooned over you that day and talked about how cute you were. I agreed with them. 

Looking at what you wrote also made me think of the time you stopped by our new house to see it. I still remember the seat you sat in, and the conversation we had about you playing basketball. That big smile on your face, and the friendly conversation starter. You asked me about school, and I talked and you listened. You told me about work, and then it was time for you and Uncle Jim to leave. I will never forget the little things like when u'd make fun of my fashion sense, or my blonde moments. You always made me feel welcome. I will always hate what happened to you, and I will shed a tear often, but I smile to because I was honored to know you, and love you. You are our 21 year old guardian angel, watching over us as we wish you were out with us. But I and our family knows you are in a better place with PopPop, and Uncle Bill. We love you, you were destined never to be forgotten by anyone you came across in life and you never will be because none of us will let your memory die. I miss you James Coyle Jr. and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I know that I can't so I'll continue to pray to you that you watch over us. Thank you for your gift to us here on earth, and live peacefully for us in heaven until we all get to meet your smiling face again someday. Close

Missing you more and more every day!  / Kristin (cousin)
I still just think it is so crazy, and don't want to believe it ever happened. It took me so long to even view this website because i couldn't bring myself to look at it.  I  miss Jimmy so much, more that words can express.  He was more than a cousin to me but also like a brother and very good friend.  He was always there for me when i needed help with anything, 2 weeks before he left us, he changed around my whole room for me.  I will never change my room around again as long as I live  at home.  Our trip to Va was so much fun, we had a blast.  Went to Kings Dominion and visited my Aunt.  I am just so glad that Jimmy got to go away and have a good time right before he died.  I miss him so much, i miss the "Crazy" story, noone will ever beable to top that one off and the way he use to imitate people...oh my god, he would have me laughing my ass off!!!  I love him and miss everything about him!  I wish we were all planning another trip to VA again :*(   There's not a day that goes but that i don't think of Jimmy, i stop what I am doing, go into a daze and somedays just cry and cry.  I believe that Jimmy, PopPop, Uncle Bill, My Grandparents and My uncle Glenn are all my Guardian Angels helping me along my way right now, guiding me in all the right directions.  I love you all! Close

Only the good die young!  / Colleen (Best friend/sister )
WoW, Jimmy when we were little I never would have thought that fate would put me here today. Life isn't fair but, but everything happens for a reason, and if it didn't no good people would ever die young. God had a greater plan for you, and even though I miss you more than words can say, I know that I will see you again someday and we will have all of eternity to catch up. I miss you so much my not so little brother. Love your not so big sister, Colleen.

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10 Months Already....  / Lori (Good Friend )
Jimmy,
   I wish you were here. I need a guy's advice and you would know the right thing to do if you were around. Something horrible happend to me yesterday not only did you, one of my best friend's die, but because of some stupid lady I work with she also ruined my relationship with one of the greatest guys in the world. You know, Chad. The one that would do anything for me. Now he's gone too, and I need your strength because I can't stop crying but then when I do, I see your picture and I cry some more. I miss you SO SO much. Love you always & forever. 

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Having a hard day  / Kimmie (Cousin)
Jimmy I dont know why I just cant stop crying today it hit me like a brick wall this morning when i sat at my desk and saw ur picture just thinking to myself u were here this time last year then all of a sudden u were just gone. Ripped away and it is really hurting me today i mean i think about u everyday and miss u but today is just really hard. I was in a really good mood before i got to work and i guess i just got to thinking about u maybe ur with me today i dont know and i can feel u but i cant see u or hug u. u wouldnt let me hug u anyway lol but i want u to know even though u probly wont ever see this little message that i love u dearly and u are dearly missed by a whole lot of people and me and everyone else have a permanent hole in our hearts that will never be fixed. Matthew James was born!!! he's named after u so i hope he's like u in some ways and knows how to tell a good story! I met a guy and i clung to him because he was just like u that i wanted him to talk to me forever but i think i freaked him out lol oh well i miss u and i know i will see u again when its my time to go i love u Jim.
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Thinking of Jimmy  / Kim Roush (loving cousin/friend )
Hey!!! I am sitting here thinking about last year and all the other times when me u n colleen ventured out into the snow after a storm and when we use to go sledding!!! Jim I miss u so much. It hurts so bad i still cant believe ur gone. Its not fair that i have to go to ur grave to see u..... I dont want to have to pay my respects to u i want to be able to talk to u and respect u with u standing in front of me u had ur whole life ahead of u. How could someone do this to u? Its always been said that ur supposed to forgive and that God is all about forgiveness but how can u forgive someone for taking a loved ones life and it seeming like he doesnt even care about what he did? I always think of the stupid things u useto say and do that would have me laughing hysterically forever to the point where my stomach hurt! I just really hope that ur watching over me and all of us making sure everythings ok and still praying for us up in Heaven tell Pop pop and Uncle Bill i love them too and have a drink to us down here who can only dream about what Heaven is like and hope its nothing less than paradise i'll see u on the other side Jimmy just know that ur memory lives on forever in my heart and i will never stop thinking about u and wondering if u think about all of us to!  Forever 21!! Love you. Close

Im so sorry  / Emily Sorum (mom to an angel )
Im sorry for your loss. Jimmy was a year younger than me. Im I feel so bad that he cant be here to do the things the rest of us can.. Just know that hes doing so much more where he is now. And one day you will meet him again. I lost my baby daughter in aug. I know that there is no pain greater than the loss of a child. (no matter what age they are.) I can see the Jimmy touched so many lives you guys are so lucky for the memories you have with him. God Bless All who knew and loved him. Take Care,
Emily
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MY CHILD  / SELMA FLYNN BOBBO.MEMORY-OF.COM (friend)
"MY child On the day God took you I thought that I would die I wondered where the time went? I asked alot of whys?? With people all around me I felt alone inside From all their words of comfort, I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming That I'd wake and find you here, I thought "This can't be happening." As I wiped another tear. On the day that you were laid to rest My heart broke yet again, I wondered if the pain would end, But mostly, I wondered when?? It's hard to be without you, At times the days seem long, Sometimes I just sit crying, When there's really nothing wrong. I wish we'd had more time, Before your life was done. I hope your resting peacefully, My precious child, Close

Let the music heal your soul!  / Colleen (Sister)

When you lose someone they are never truly lost so Let the music heal your soul. Jimmy we had so many memories that I will cherish forever and I'll be missing you until I got Heaven and You'll be there, waiting to pick up where we left off. There are Tears in Heaven I am sure, but you will always be Somewhere over the rainbow/What a wonderful life you lived Sweet baby James. I hate always having to be in the Driver's seat now but i know you'll always be By my side. Everybody hurts, when they think of Who'd you be today. When I look to the sky, I know you are Somewhere out there, and Forever young you'll stay. It is hard to say I move when i think of The Dance you are missing out in life, and knowing I will neveer get to say like Father and Son when referring to you and daddy. oh, how i wish i could spend just One more day with you. But We won't cry we will hold our heads up high as we Walk by faith knowing we will see again.

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There You'll Be!  / Kristyn Ewart (good friend )
"In my dreams I'll always see you soar above the sky, in my heart there will always be a place for you for all my life, I'll keep a part of you with me and everywhere I am there you'll be! Missing Jimmy more and more each day, I would do anything to hear a story with his funny twist to keep me on my feet. Jimmy "God need an angel and entertainment up in heaven I know your looking down on us telling us to not cry because you always had that way about you to dry my tears and make me feel like a million bucks! No one will take your place in my heart. I still pick up my phone just hoping to hear your voice come over my two way! It was a blessing to get to know you  and be so close with you over such little time. We both clicked because of our ability to talk everyones ear off! especially our old people that told more stories then us! Who would of ever thought that! Don't worry Jimmy I still talk and tell my stories but they'll never be as good as both of ours together!:) Like the song goes"Only the good die young!" I will see you in my dreams!! Close

I miss u Jimmy  / Kim Roush (cousin)

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

By: Unknown

 

When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not there to see;

If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today,

While thinking of the many things, we didn’t get to say.

 

I know how much you love me, as much as I love you,

And each time that you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,

That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready, in heaven far above,

And that I’d have to leave behind, all those I dearly love.

 

But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,

For all my life, I’d always thought, I didn’t want to die.

 I had so much to live for, so much yet to do,

It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.

 

I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad,

I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had.

 

If I could relive yesterday, just even for a while,

I’d say goodbye and kiss you, and maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized that this could never be.

For emptiness and memories would take the place of me.

 

And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow,

I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.

 

But when I walked through heaven’s gates, I felt so much at home.

When god looked down and smiled at me, from his great golden throne,

He said “This is eternity, and all I’ve promised you.”

Today for life on earth is past, but here it starts anew, I promise no tomorrow

But today will always last, and since each day’s the same day

There’s no longing for the past.

 

But you have been so faithful, so trusting and so true,

Though there were times you did some things, you knew you shouldn’t do.

But you have been forgiven, and now at last you’re free.

So won’t you take my hand and share my life with me?

 

So when tomorrow starts without me,

Don’t think we’re far apart, for every time you think of me,

I’m right here, in your heart.

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Always In My Heart  / Lori Wisniewski (Friend)
There are so many great things to say about Jimmy that I don't know where to start. He was always a good friend to me and I miss him very much. We had a good time when we were together; whether it be going to the shore with Colleen his sister and Kim his cousin or just hanging out back with him and his friends. Jimmy knew how to make you smile and whenever I saw him he was always smiling. I'll never forget the little things he said or the stories he shared. Some of them were exaggerated a bit, but that was him and I loved him for it. I was fortunate to have him in my life as a friend and unfortunate like the rest to have him taken away. You take life for granted and you never know what you've had until it's gone. My heart goes out to his family and friends (like me) who have never lost someone the way that Jimmy was taken from us. He will always be in my heart... Close

RIP Jimmy  / Kimberly Roush (Loving Cousin )
Not not a minute goes by that I don't think of Jimmy. Everything I do and say makes me remember him... like my Aunt says were born under the same moon and acted the same!! Sometimes in a good way... I miss u Jimmy. Its sad that something this heartwrenching had to tear at our family like this. Its been a rough year and no words will ever bring u back. No matter how many tears anyone cries. We all just know that ur up there watching over us with a beer in one hand and a cigarette in the other with all the pretty girls cause we know the girls loved u, and with Uncle Bill and Pop Pop right next to ya ... I'll see u one i get there Jimbo Jangles!!! RIP -loving and remembering u always with every breath i take.... i am taking it for u. Close

missing you forever and always  / Kathleen Watkins (Cousin)
Jimmy,

  I still cry myself to sleep alot. I miss you. Even though I didn't see you very often, it's hard to know that on holidays I won't see your smiling face. You won't be able to make me laugh.

  I always thought you were the perfect older brother to Dugan and Erin. They worshipped you and you were a good role model. You were such a great friend to Colleen and I always envyed that because I never had it with my brother.

  Two of my best friends only met you a hand full of times but they still remember how nice you were to them. You had an amazing way of welcoming everyone who crossed your path. Your legacy will live on in all of us.
 
  I will miss you forever and always and I hope you always protect our family. Your our guardian angel. Just remember we will NEVER forget you!
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